A Decade of Marriage: How Marriage Counseling Can Help You Get to the Next 10 Years

If you examine the many successful marriages, the advice on how they’ve lasted past the 10-year mark tends to vary. However, the key that many people overlook is that successful marriages are indeed possible. In a world where you hear about divorce, the end of monogamy, and more people choosing to be single, you might be wondering if marriage as a construct is on its way out.

There’s plenty to learn from successful marriages. However, if you and your significant other find yourself in a rocky place, marriage counseling can help. However, it all starts with a strong bedrock. If you’ve made it past 10 years, there is plenty to work with.

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All marriages can start strong thanks to the Honeymoon Period. However, things can also deteriorate fast. Still, those marriages that go past 10 years and longer all have the same bedrocks:

Communication

Yes, that old chestnut still rings true: communication is the key. Everyone needs to learn to talk to their spouse in a way that works for them. That involves learning and growing with them.

Compromise

Don’t let anyone tell you that compromise is an ugly word. Long-lasting marriages have nailed the concept that give and take are vital to the health of the marriage. Are you compromising enough with your spouse?

Commitment

Long-lasting marriages have spouses who are deliriously committed to each other – no matter what. That’s the “through thick and thin” part of the vows you took.

Need Marriage Help?

Family First Counseling can help any couple who may need assistance navigating the tricky waters of a committed relationship. From young couples to ones that have a few more gray hairs, we’re ready to help. Contact us today to schedule an appointment.